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Even icons have to know when to quit

RM
JUN
07

I expected to remember Helen Thomas, the legendary White House correspondent who retired this week at 89 after holding presidents to account for close to half a century, as a model for my own old age---scrappy, tenacious and relentlessly committed to her craft. "I think I'll work all my life," she once said. "When you're having fun, why stop having fun?" Why, indeed.

I figured Thomas would keep on posing squirm-worthy questions till a heart attack felled her on the spot (cue the obits in praise of an icon and the scholarships in her name). Then the fun turned to ugliness, captured on that infamous video of Thomas declaring that Israel's Jews should "get the hell out of Palestine" and go "home" to other countries---notably Germany and Poland, where Jews were driven from their homes and slaughtered.

What made my skin crawl was not that Thomas had criticized Israel but that she'd invoked the Holocaust while telling Jews where to go. So what if she'd done so unconsciously? A journalist at the top of her game---the so-called dean of the White House press corps and its only member to have a personal chair for briefings---should understand the power of words to wound and divide. I waited for Thomas to show at least a flicker of remorse. Instead she issued a tone-deaf statement in which her "deep regret" sounded more like denial.

Even so, I couldn't suppress a pang of sorrow at the spectacle of Thomas undone by her own folly. At least one old friend denounced her (former Clinton adviser Lanny Davis, who called her an "anti-Semitic bigot"). Meanwhile an angry online mob heaped scorn on the "nasty old witch," "old bat" and "senile old fart." What a pitiful conclusion to a gallant and glorious career.

Unlike today's young female journalists, who expect to cover wars and rip the lid off corporate skulduggery, Thomas started out when newsrooms had no place for women---unless you count the society pages. Yet by age 40 she was covering John F. Kennedy's campaign. She later became the only woman in print journalism to travel to China with Richard Nixon, the first female officer of the National Press Club and the First Female President of the White House Correspondents Association. I could go on but you get the idea---and anyway, I'm not here to introduce Helen Thomas at a podium. Her podium days are over. Sad as that is, she has only herself to blame.

The art of success is not just making it yours. Perhaps even harder is knowing when to leave a job you've loved. The moment will come when you start to repeat yourself because you've hung around too long. And if you're pushing 90, you may well have lost your mental edge.

In her prime Helen Thomas did battle with what she called "the arrogance of power." Yet it seems that in old age she was shackled and shamed by her own arrogance. Speaking her mind had been her badge of courage. Then she crossed an invisible boundary. I wish that she'd seen it in time. I suspect she didn't want to.

Posted by Rona June 07, 2010 @ 11:03 AM. File in Women, Working Life

 
 

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Number of Comments  4 responses to "Even icons have to know when to quit"

 
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Tessa
June 07, 2010 at 2:02PM
 
Such an ignominious ending to a grand career. I'll always respect her for standing up to Dubya, but you're right - she should have quite while she was ahead. At the same time, it's so frustrating to see trash like Sarah Palin, Glenn Beck et al castigating Thomas out of one side of their mouths, while spewing racist rubbish out of the other. They can portray the President of the United States as Hitler, rouse the rabble that follow them with blatantly racist comments and they get a free pass from the mainstream media. But Helen Thomas makes a stupid, ill-advised remark, and the media pile on. It is to weep.
 
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Rona Maynard
June 07, 2010 at 5:05 PM
 
Yes, I too get really steamed about the Glenn Beck crowd. But I expect a lot more from the doyenne of the White House press corps than I too from rabble rousers like Beck. Beck and Palin make me angry. Thomas leaves me feeling both dismayed and disappointed because I've thought of her as a role model. And her apology, if you could call it that, was a cringe-inducing example of how not to respond to one's own gaffes. I used to want to be right all the time. I've learned it's more important to be able to make amends for what I do wrong.
 
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Lynne
June 09, 2010 at 5:05AM
 
Ms. Thomas should have retired about three presidents ago. Wonder if the poor woman is perhaps suffering from some sort of dementia, especially Alzheimer's?. Comments like her's are common for people who suffer from such illnesses. I hate that her distinguished career came down to this. She and her audience deserve so much more. She was the Barbara Walters of the White House Press Corps. and now it is time to pass the baton onto the next generation of female reporters who cover The White House.
 
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ruth pennebaker
June 19, 2010 at 7:07AM
 
I agree with Lynne. I wondered immediately whether Thomas might not be showing signs of dementia. In any event, what a terrible shame this is.
 
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Rona Maynard
June 19, 2010 at 9:09 AM
 
Good point, Lynne and Ruth. I took Thomas's statement as a particularly painful example of the what-the-hellness many people adopt in old age. They no longer care what anyone else thinks of them so will say whatever pops into their heads--especially if they feel entitled to do so by reputation and experience. But of course there's a fine line between this sort of behaviour and dementia.
 
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Carol Harrison
December 21, 2010 at 3:03PM
 
I was watching CNN when Helen Thomas was talking to either a reporter or a person of Jeiwsh faith and I could not believe that she would even have the arrogance to make an egregious statement like that.

Shame on you Helen Thomas after such a long and illustrious careeer at the White House. Too bad you hadn't thought FIRST before uttering such an unthinkable comment. I'm sure many people were just as shocked as I was.
 
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